We’ve got a little work to do, but she’s coming along, don’t you think?

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We love dogs around here, as my long-time readers already know. Well, Sarah says two things quite frequently—”mama” (which can mean me, or just that she’s unhappy about something and the status quo needs to change), and “woof woof” when she sees a puppy dog! (Actually, she seems to think ALL animals say “woof woof,” but we’ll get that straightened out later.)

This isn’t the best, but you can kind of hear her saying it if you turn up the volume:

And in other dog news… do you remember “Pound Puppies”? Well, I didn’t have those. :) I had the “Kennel Kuddles” from Wal-Mart, and they were great. I kept them, and I just put together a little puppy playset for the girls. There are some baby washcloths for blankets, some silver condiment cups for food bowls, a baby hair brush, and a doctor kit to play “vet.”

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And it’s only halfway through January! I’m already about a third of the way to the number of books I read last YEAR…

… but I’ve resolved to do better this year. You know, resolved as in “New Year’s Resolution,” as in “I never read, but I should, so by golly I’m going to read 50 books this year.” Ok, maybe not. But I’m aiming for two a month, and if I read at least one a month I’ll be pretty pleased.

(Side note: For those of you who thought this post was about Anna’s reading, so as not to disappoint you, let me just say she’s doing great. We’ve just started going through Starfall‘s little “books” for beginning readers and she loves it. She can tell you all about Zac the Rat, Peg the Hen, and Gus the Duck.)

Back to my book…  it was a short book (but it still counts, I tell you!) about how to stop procrastinating and get things done. Things like reading all those books I want to read. It’s called Eat That Frog! by Brian Tracy. To explain the title, I’ll just offer a quote from the introduction:

Mark Twain once said that if the first thing you do each morning is to eat a live frog, you can go through the day with the satisfaction of knowing that that is probably the worst thing that is going to happen to you all day long.

Your “frog” is your biggest, most important task, the one you are most likely to procrastinate on if you don’t do something about it. It is also the one task that can have the greatest positive impact on your life and results at the moment.

This book is definitely geared toward those who have careers outside of the home, but much of it was applicable to little ol’ stay-at-home-mom me. At this season in my life, I’m pretty quick to blame external factors beyond my control as my primary hindrances to getting things done. However, I admit I have some internal holdups as well, and this book helped me identify them. I’ll just highlight a few things I learned:

• I need to be better about setting goals. If I’m going to spend my time on something, it needs to be getting me to where I want to be. Tracy says, “One of the very worst uses of time is to do something very well that need not be done at all.” How true!

• Advance planning is very important. Just taking a few minutes to plan out your day can save you up to two hours of time! You should have master, monthly, weekly, and daily lists to work from. Aha! I knew it! Making lists if one of my favorite things to do. Now, about getting things crossed off of it…

• Focus on high-value activities—those that will bring the greatest positive results to your family, career, life in general. The 80/20 rule applies to our activities too—20% of our activities account for 80% of our results. Yet we tend to busy ourselves with the 80% that don’t get us anywhere. Always busy, but never accomplishing anything… yeah, that sounds familiar.

• We have to choose to procrastinate on some things, because we simply can’t do everything. I’ve actually been thinking about this since before I even started the book and I’ve observed something about myself. When I have a chunk of time, I think one of my biggest holdups to using it wisely is that in choosing to do something, I’m choosing to NOT do fifteen other things I want to do. So I do nothing, or I hop from thing to thing trying to do it all, thereby accomplishing diddly squat. Pretty stupid, huh?

• Technology is meant to improve the quality of our lives by enhancing our communications with people and making us more effective and efficient. If you’re a slave to technology, it is no longer serving that purpose. Don’t become addicted.

• You can reach a mental state of high performance and productivity. Tracy writes, “You feel elated and clear. Everything you do seems effortless and accurate. You feel happy and energized. You experience a tremendous sense of calm and increased personal effectiveness.” Ok, I have felt this on occasion. But most of the time I feel sluggish, sloppy, unmotivated, and foggy-headed. I’ve long thought that people who get a lot done must think faster than I do, that my brain just isn’t wired to operate that efficiently. But you can work to achieve this state of clarity by developing a sense of urgency in getting your tasks done, by training yourself to act rather than procrastinate. And once this starts, you develop the momentum to keep it up.

There were several things about this book that really were more applicable to those pursuing a career, but I gathered a several gems from it that made it worth the read. And I learned that I can get more done. And by getting things done, I DON’T just mean housework and such. I’m also talking about personal goals, things I want to do with my family, relationships I want to nurture outside the home—things that matter. I don’t want anyone to think I’m trying to brush people aside so I can do tasks. But sometimes those things that matter take some advance planning to make them actually happen.

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This morning, as usual, Anna wanted to know where we were going. And as usual, when the answer was “nowhere,” she was ready to help me out with a suggestion. This morning she came up with this:

“Let me think where we could go… maybe we could go buy a present for a little girl.”

“What little girl?” I asked.

“Maybe in Africa…”

“Oh, you mean a little girl who doesn’t have any toys?”

“Yeah.”

Oh, what a sweet spirit she has! She was remembering back to some charitable giving we did before Christmas, when I told her these presents were for “a little girl who doesn’t have any toys” and I threw out Africa as a possible destination. And when her grandparents took her to buy a doll “for a little girl” and they dropped it off at a local toy drive. Apparently she thought that was pretty cool. May she continue that desire to give to others all through the year!

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There’s this toy that I… I mean the kids… have been playing with a lot lately. It’s Magneatos! It’s very simple—just a bunch of magnetic rods and joints—but the possibilities are endless and it’s almost therapeutic for a geometry geek like me. Squares, triangles, hexagons! Pyramids, tetrahedrons, cubes! And of course, the cool stuff on the box that I like to… I mean that Anna likes to… build by looking at the picture. Over the past few weeks she’s gotten better at looking at the picture and figuring out what comes next. That’s some kind of good spacial-relations skill, right?

Anna now knows lots of shapes, including the difference between a square pyramid and a triangular pyramid. Sarah likes to play with them too, even though she isn’t trying to build things yet. She’s pretty good at tearing them down, though, and putting the blocks back in the box when we’re done. :)

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I didn’t blog much this fall. I want to blog more. Yeah, I’m always saying that. But maybe this time I’ll actually do it.

Honestly, it’s been a little stressful lately. We’re still trying to settle in with the new baby. Say what? She’s 15 months old? I can’t use that excuse any more? Oh.

I’m trying to stick with this routine I came up with. Laugh if you want to. But so far it’s going ok this week. And during the girls’ naptime is “quiet work” time for me—basically anything that can be done in the recliner with a cup of chai. Yes, I check Facebook and Pinterest, but it’s also time to do things like plan, research, read, organize files, look up recipes, clean out e-mail, catch up on blogs I read, go through photos, and BLOG.

I have an initial goal to blog at least once a week, even if it’s pretty frivolous and I think I have nothing to say. Gotta start somewhere. Maybe I’ll be up to twice a week soon. I LOVE these babies of mine and I want to do better about recording who they are and what they’re up to!

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Surely everyone has heard about Operation Christmas Child... if you haven’t, go read about it! Anyway, I’ve been doing shoeboxes for years (for the oldest age range), but this year we decided Anna was old enough to sort of understand what she was doing if she packed her own box for a little girl her age. I told her we were picking out some presents for a little girl far, far away, maybe in Africa (because she knows about Africa), who doesn’t have any toys. She might not even have much to eat or many clothes to wear. Anna asked me what her name was. She wanted to take the box to the little girl herself. So, there are a few things she doesn’t quite grasp yet, but she understood the broader concept. She had a good time at Dollar Tree (we went there so I wouldn’t have to worry about prices; anything she picked would be ok).

Here she is packing up her things:

Sarah wanted to “help” too:

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Anna is reading. She’s 3 1/2. And I am one proud mama.

No, I’m not one of those moms who pushes her kids to overachieve and reach milestones faster than their peers. At least, I don’t think I am. Anna just has a natural knack for it. And I’ve guided her along the way, but really I’ve done very little.

We first figured out she might be an early reader when she was not quite 2 years old. We had given her a toy laptop for Christmas, designed for older kids, but we thought she would have fun pushing the buttons and watching the screen and hearing the sounds… typical baby stuff. Then one day I was watching her play the game where it was “raining letters” and she had to hit the button for that letter before it disappeared from the screen. And she was getting every one right. Upper and lower case. Very impressive, but I thought surely she had just memorized where the buttons were on the computer. So I asked her to point out specific letters for me in her books. And on t-shirts, and cereal boxes, and anything else in the house that had writing on it. And she knew them, almost every one. Upper and lower case.

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Long before I had kids, I learned through babysitting and working in the church nursery that my favorite age is around 1 year old. And Sarah’s in it right now. Here are some of the reasons why:

I rub lotion on my hands, she sees me, drops what she’s doing, and starts rubbing her hands together.

She picks up the comb and tries to comb Anna’s hair.

She holds the toy phone to her ear.

She puts things IN sometimes, when directed to, instead of always pulling them OUT.

I say, “Hug Mama?” and she leans her head in to me.

These seem so simple, but they just show how she’s learning to interact with the world around her. Babies are just interested in experiencing things through their senses—they want to pick up something and see how it feels, tastes, sounds, etc. But 1-year-olds are learning what to DO with things. It’s just a cool transition to watch.

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(Or, a Very Hungry Caterpillar party for a Very Hungry Sarah.)

We had the out-of-town family come in to celebrate Sarah’s 1st birthday with us this past weekend! Since she loves the book The Very Hungry Caterpillar, I decided to make that the theme of the party. And by “theme” I mean the cake and a craft. :) I’m sure you could go nuts with it for an older child, but for a 1-year-old that was enough. We enjoyed a light lunch, a craft for the older kids, gifts, cake, and lots of visiting!

The cake:

Pictures of Sarah on her “month birthday” every month: (more…)

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